Every morning, just before sunrise, he’s there.

Bob.

He’s not my cat. I don’t have a cat. But there he is—perched on my porch like a little king, staring through the window like I’m late for a royal appointment.

He meows. He taps the door. He waits.

I feed him. Every day. Rain or shine.

He won’t let me touch him—not yet. Bob is feral. Wise. Proud. But lately, something’s changing. He stays a little longer. Watches a little closer. Trust, it seems, is beginning to grow.

He’s still not my cat.

But maybe one day, he’ll choose me.

That first morning, it was just a glance. A brief flash of orange fur as he padded past the window. I didn’t think much of it. Feral cats are common in the neighborhood. They roam, they keep to themselves, and they come and go as they please. I figured Bob was just another stray passing through, on his way to wherever it was they go when they’re not making their daily rounds.

But the next day, there he was again, sitting on my porch as though he’d claimed it as his own. His yellow eyes locked onto mine, piercing through the glass. A soft meow broke the silence, and I could almost hear the impatience in it. Like he was waiting for something from me. Something more than the usual “hello” I offer when I pass by.

I hesitated. I had no idea how to interact with a feral cat. I’d heard stories of them being wild, unpredictable, and wary of humans. But there was something about Bob’s stare—something that tugged at my heart. I didn’t know why, but I opened the door and stepped outside.

I didn’t have any cat food. I didn’t even have a bowl. So I went inside and grabbed a slice of leftover chicken from the fridge. When I stepped back outside, Bob was still there, sitting with that air of calm authority, like he was waiting for me to get it right.

I tossed the chicken on the ground in front of him. Bob didn’t move. I stood there awkwardly, watching him, wondering if I’d just made a huge mistake. But then, he sniffed the chicken, glanced up at me, and with a flick of his tail, he started eating. He didn’t take his eyes off me the entire time.

I couldn’t help but laugh. “Well, I guess that’s a start,” I muttered to myself, relieved that he hadn’t hissed or run away.

From that day on, Bob returned every morning. Sometimes it was before the sun even came up, and other times, I’d find him waiting just as the first rays of light peeked over the horizon. I started setting out food for him—first the leftover chicken, then a small bowl of milk, and finally, a real cat food dish.

He was always there, as punctual as clockwork. But he never came closer. He never let me pet him. If I reached out too fast, he would back away, his eyes wide with caution. And so, I respected his space. We had our routine: I fed him, he ate, and then he would sit and watch me.

He never seemed to trust me enough to let me get any closer, but I didn’t mind. It was enough that he trusted me enough to show up every day.

Over time, though, something started to change. Bob didn’t just come for the food anymore. He would sit there, perched on the edge of the porch, watching me for longer periods. Sometimes, I’d find him staring through the window while I worked or read. He’d sit there, motionless, his yellow eyes reflecting the light like a pair of small lanterns.

And slowly, slowly, he started getting closer. It was subtle at first—just a little bit closer each day. If I sat outside, he would inch his way toward me, until he was sitting a few feet away, his tail flicking lazily in the air.

One morning, I found him lying on the porch, stretched out in the sun, not too far from where I was sitting. I could hardly believe it. The feral king, basking in the warmth of the day like it was his throne.

That’s when I started talking to him.

Not in some weird “cat lady” way, but just… talking. I’d tell him about my day, about the things I was working on, or the weird dreams I’d had the night before. I didn’t expect him to respond. I wasn’t even sure he understood. But it felt good. It felt like a quiet conversation, just the two of us, even if the words were one-sided.

Bob would never respond with anything more than a soft meow or a flick of his ear. But I began to feel like he was listening, in his own way. It wasn’t much, but it was something.

It wasn’t long before I found myself looking forward to those mornings. I started waking up earlier just to catch the sunrise with Bob. He always seemed to arrive around the same time—just as the sky turned pink and orange with the promise of a new day. I didn’t know what Bob’s story was. I didn’t know where he came from or why he’d chosen my porch. But something about him felt comforting, like he was there to keep me company.

Then, one day, something unexpected happened. It wasn’t anything big, not at first. But it was enough to stop me in my tracks.

I was sitting on the porch, reading a book, when I heard a soft thud. I glanced up, and there he was—Bob, sitting directly in front of me. He was closer than he’d ever been. His eyes were soft, not the sharp, watchful gaze he usually had. And then, he did something I never thought I’d see.

He nudged my hand with his head.

At first, I couldn’t believe it. I froze, unsure of what to do. But after a moment, I slowly extended my hand toward him, palm open, careful not to startle him. Bob didn’t flinch. Instead, he rubbed his face against my hand, just like a cat does when they trust you.

My heart skipped a beat.

In that moment, I realized something—something that changed everything. Bob wasn’t just a stray cat showing up for food anymore. He was choosing me. Not as a human who fed him, but as someone he trusted. It wasn’t just about the food. It was about the bond that had slowly grown between us.

But just as quickly as it had happened, Bob pulled back. He sat back on his haunches and stared at me for a moment, like he was waiting for me to react. I couldn’t help but smile.

“Well, that’s a start,” I said softly.

From that day on, Bob stayed a little longer each morning. He no longer kept his distance. He’d sit beside me, rubbing against my legs, purring softly as I stroked his fur. It wasn’t the grand moment I’d imagined, but it was something. The trust was there, unspoken but understood.

Then, one morning, just as I was stepping out to feed him, I noticed something. Bob wasn’t on the porch. He wasn’t by the window. He wasn’t anywhere. My heart sank. I checked the street. Nothing. The yard. Empty.

I spent the entire day looking for him. I walked the neighborhood, calling his name. But there was no sign of him. Not even a hint of orange fur.

The next morning came, and I woke up early, hoping that maybe Bob had just been out on his usual wanderings. But again, he didn’t show up.

I didn’t know what had happened to him. Part of me wondered if he had moved on, found a new spot or a better home. Another part of me worried that something had happened to him. Maybe he’d gotten hurt or worse.

I tried not to dwell on it, but it was hard. Bob had become part of my routine, my mornings. It felt wrong, empty without him.

And then, after two weeks, I saw him again.

I was sitting on the porch, feeling a bit sorry for myself, when I heard a familiar sound. A soft meow. I turned around and saw Bob, standing in the yard, looking at me with those same yellow eyes.

He was thinner, his fur matted, and he had a limp. But he was there. Alive.

Without thinking, I rushed to him, crouching down to meet him. Bob didn’t hesitate. He came right to me, nuzzling my face with his head, purring louder than I’d ever heard him.

I realized something in that moment.

Bob had come back. Not because he needed food. Not because he was lost. He came back because he knew where he belonged.

And maybe, just maybe, I was where I was meant to be, too.

The lesson Bob taught me was simple but profound. Trust isn’t given overnight. It’s earned, one small gesture at a time. And sometimes, you don’t have to look far to find where you belong.

Bob may never be “my” cat, but he doesn’t have to be. Sometimes, the best relationships don’t require ownership. They just need understanding.

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