My Husband and I Gave Up Everything So Our Children Could Have More. And In Old Age, We Found Ourselves Completely Alone.
Our entire lives revolved around our children. We never put ourselves firstโnot for ambition, not for comfortโonly for them. Our three beloved kids. We loved them with everything we had. We gave up everything and asked for nothing in return. Who wouldโve thought that in the twilight of lifeโwhen the body grows weak and the heart longs for careโwe wouldnโt be met with love, but with loneliness?
Michael and I were childhood friends. We grew up side by sideโsame neighborhood, same school desks. When we turned eighteen, we got married. It was a small wedding; we didnโt have much. A few months later, I found out I was pregnant. Michael dropped out of college and took two jobs, just to put food on the table.
Times were tough. Some weeks, we lived on nothing but baked potatoes. But we never complained. It was part of the planโto make sure our children wouldnโt live the same way. Just when things started to calm down, I found out I was pregnant again. We were scared, of courseโbut not for a second did we consider not keeping the baby. They were ours, and that was all that mattered.
Back then, there was no help. No one reached out a hand. My mother had passed away early, and Michaelโs mother lived far away and kept her distance. I lived between the kitchen and the childrenโs room, while Michael came home every night exhausted, his hands cracked from cold and hard work.
By the time we were thirty, we already had three children. Was it hard? Absolutely. But we never expected it to be easyโwe werenโt the kind to give up. We kept going, somehow managing to buy apartments for two of them.
Sleepless nights, unpaid bills, sacrificesโwe carried them all without asking โwhy.โ Our youngest wanted to become a doctor, so we took out more loans, sold what we could, and paid for her studies abroad. โWeโll find a way,โ we always said.
Time slipped through our fingers like sand. The kids grew up, moved out, and built their own lives. And just when we needed them the mostโwhen old age caught up with us and illness knocked on our doorโeverything collapsed. Michael was diagnosed. His strength faded with each passing day. I cared for him alone. No phone calls. No visits.
When I called our oldest, Samantha, and asked for help, she replied coldly:
โI have a family too. I canโt just drop everything.โ
A friend later told me she saw Samantha at a cafรฉ, laughing with friends.
Our son, Ethan, blamed workโbut his Instagram said otherwise: cocktails on a beach in Ibiza. And Emilyโฆ our youngest, the one we made the biggest sacrifices for? She sent a short message:
โI have exams. I canโt come.โ
And that was itโฆ
On chilly autumn evenings, when the wind whispers through bare branches and shadows stretch long across the walls, our house seems to sigh with silence. Iโve developed a habit of lighting a candle, playing old records, and staring at the black-and-white photos on the shelf. Their small smiles, their berry-stained hands, those big curious eyesโฆ how did it all vanish, leaving no trace behind?
One Sunday morning, I found Michael staring blankly at the ceiling. I sat beside him, took his hand in my trembling fingers, and said:
โYou know, my loveโฆ we were good parents.โ
He sighed softly. Didnโt say a word. But a single tear slid down his cheek.
In town, people still respect us. Mrs. Nichols sometimes brings us cheese pie. Father John checks in every Sunday after service, asking if we need anything.
But our childrenโฆ theyโre no longer ours. They belong to the world. To a rushed future, where old age is just a burden.
On Christmas Eve, we made stuffed cabbage rolls, like every year. We set the table for two. Turned on the lights in the window, clinging to a childlike hope that maybe, just maybeโฆ someone might walk through that door.
No one did.
Only the neighborโs dog barked once in the backyard, like a knock that never came.
And yetโฆ one spring evening, just after the snowdrops bloomed, we received a letter. Handwritten. Blue ink, and the scent of old perfume.
It was from Emily.
She said she missed us. That she finally understood. That she was coming home.
Michael looked at me and smiled.
โMaybe we werenโt forgotten after all,โ he whispered.
And for the first time in a long while, I felt that the light didnโt just come from the candleโฆ but from the soul.
If your parents are still alive, call them. Hug them. Because to them, your voice means more than any gift.
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